1) When was Adam4Adam established?
Answer: It was founded in 2003. 2) Some men don't look like their photos. The date can be awkward. What should I do?
Answer: You would be well-advised to have a video chat with another member before going out for a date with him. In this way, you will know whether this person actually looks like their photos or not.
The most awkward gay date that I've heard of is Darren Hayes's experience which he shared in a podcast interview – after chatting with another gay man on a dating app, he went out for a date with that person. That guy left the moment he saw Darren without saying anything. That's pretty awkward, although I think Darren Hayes is a very handsome man. 3) Which gay hookup apps or websites are Adam4Adam's competitors?
Answer: Their No. 1 competitor is Grindr; another major competitor is Tinder. In fact, Adam4Adam
has imitated Grindr to some degree, especially when it comes to its mobile app. 4) I think I'm probably gay. How can I tell whether I'm gay or not?
Answer: If you simply think you are gay without any solid evidence, chances are you are probably straight. That being said, sexuality is a spectrum, so perhaps you are gay to some extent. But I can still give you some advice based on my experience and insights into sexuality
– There are two things that strongly indicate homosexuality: I. You had gay thoughts when you were very young
. For example, you were attracted to boys when you were at school. This is a strong indicator that you are gay because you knew who you really are when you were very young (the society teaches you who you should be later on). II
. You had homophobia when you were young
. For instance, because you had gay thoughts when you were at school, you were worried about your sexuality – you didn't
want to be gay. That actually means you are probably gay in reality according to a psychologist that I interviewed last year.