1. If I have an argument with my lover (boyfriend) at night, would the argument affect s*x? Answer: When you discuss something negative, just make sure you two stay away from the bedroom. Otherwise, your lover/boyfriend might have negative associations with the bedroom in future, meaning next time when your guy enters the bedroom, he may think of the argument which you had with him before. That is called "conditioning" in psychology. So, you should talk about negative topics with your man somewhere else, e.g. sit in a café with your boyfriend and discuss something negative there so that you two
wouldn't begin to yell at each other (there are many other people in the café).
2. I'm a lady. Should I initiate s*x? Answer: Actually, you can be both "Marilyn Monroe" and "Audrey Hepburn". Sometimes you
don't initiate s*x as you are shy. Sometimes you flirt outrageously when your lover / boyfriend tries to kiss you or bite your neck. (By the way, this move will turn your guy into a powerful tiger.) Sometimes you initiate s*x by wearing something unpredictably sexy. You may touch your guy in unpredictable ways and then withdraw with a very sultry look. You may initiate a hot make-out session
without really going "all the way". Just be patient & keep initiating some little sexy moves until your boyfriend responds. You might even initiate by sending your guy a suggestive text (sext) when he is sitting on the sofa & you are standing in the kitchen and wearing a red apron only.
3. Do you have any advice on fengshui in the bedroom? Answer: Yes, I do. According to fengshui, purple is an ideal color which evokes deep passion in the bedroom. Perhaps you can use purple curtains in the bedroom. Or you may paint your bedroom walls in purple. Or you could wear purple underwear in the bedroom.
4. I heard that there are 3 pillars in a relationship. What are the three pillars in a romantic relationship? Answer: Well,
there are many ways to phrase these three pillars. I can explain them now.
To explain this concept in a mainstream-friendly way, the three pillars in a relationship are emotional connection, intimacy and shared vision.
To explain this concept in a blunt way, the three pillars in a relationship are love, s*x and money.
To explain this concept in my way, the three pillars in a relationship are love, s*x and mutual benefits (that can be a business that you run with your partner, kids from this relationship, etc.)
Which way do you like? :))