The most paramount element in the bedroom is being totally relaxed. Good s*x has everything to do with trust and relaxation – these are much more important than any technical expertise in bed. Without 100% trust & relaxation, your technical expertise
won't work. End of story.
Note that the best performers are always the most relaxed ones, and using a condom helps you relax because
you know you're safe!
How relaxed can a woman be during s*x? Well, my story can explain this:
I invite Darren (a guy that I met on XMeeting.com) to my home spa.
"Which massage oil is your favorite?" Darren asks me curiously.
"Blue Ocean Waves Fragrance Oil mixed with rose and jasmine essential oil," I reply with a smile. "That's a "Tonight, our date will be 4 hours of sensory indulgence." I light the candles after nibbling Darren's ear.
mixture of peppermint, champagne vanilla, rose and jasmine."
Darren gently asks me to lie down on the soft sofa. Then he begins to give me a massage with the essential oil. The fragrance of the rose is enriching my skin deeply and completely. As Darren rubs my sensitive scalp, the champagne vanilla mixed with jasmine makes me drunk to some extent. When Darren keeps massaging my neck, he discovers my gold necklace with the naughty pendant, so he plays with the pendant for 2 seconds, and then his hands move to my back, my lower back, my bottom… Now my entire body tingles blissfully.
Norah Jones's song "Don't Know Why" is playing in the background:
"I waited until I saw the sun
I don't know why I didn't come
….
My heart's drenched in wine
You will be on my mind… forever"
My home spa feels like paradise tonight. I'm so glad that I joined the hookup dating site.
Before going to the bath, Darren lies down next to me on the soft sofa. It's a melting, long hug from the back. Darren begins to massage my breasts in a circular motion & moves over my stomach, too. I could feel the rhythm of his heartbeat. We are breathing in & out at the same time slowly.
Rose petals are floating on the warm water in the bath, floating with the slow rhythm of Norah Jones's romantic song.
Now the skin on my whole body is soft, supple & very receptive. After the sensual massage, my skin has further heightened its sensitivity. I feel that every part of me wants to be with Darren so much.